Day 3: Choosing to Forgive

Written By Lettie Henley

"Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." - Colossians 3:13

Today, we focus on forgiveness as a choice. It’s not always an emotion that comes naturally or instantly; sometimes, forgiveness requires us to stretch beyond our feelings and make a deliberate decision.

Choosing to forgive means deciding to let go of bitterness, resentment, and the desire for revenge. It’s an act of obedience and trust in God's plan. When we forgive, we’re essentially surrendering our right to hold onto hurt, trusting that God’s justice and mercy will handle the rest.

We forgive not because others deserve it, but because Christ has forgiven us first. When we choose forgiveness, we mirror His grace and set ourselves free from the chains of anger.

Make the choice to let go of your burdens, extend grace, and trust that God’s justice and healing will follow.

Prayer:

God, give me the strength and resolve to forgive, even when it’s hard. Help me release resentment and embrace Your grace. Remind me that forgiving others is an act of obedience and that, through Your power, I can choose to walk in freedom. Fill my heart with Your love so I can forgive as You have forgiven me. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.

Lettie Henley

Lettie Henley is a devoted child of God whose journey of faith has been marked by a relentless hunger and passion for Jesus. As an autodidact, she has spent years seeking wisdom through prayer, study, and soul-searching, always striving to draw closer to her Savior. Her love for Christ fuels everything she does: whether she's sharing her story, encouraging others, or simply living out her faith daily.

A wife and mother, Lettie’s heart is rooted in her family, and she believes that walking in God’s love begins at home. She is also a loving daughter and a child of the Most High, constantly reminded that her true identity is found in Christ alone.

Through her writing and her life, Lettie seeks to inspire others to pursue Jesus with the same passion that has transformed her soul. Her desire is to be a light in this world, shining brightly for the glory of God and encouraging others to walk boldly in their faith.

https://www.lettiehenleyministries.com
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